Relationships can be complicated at times, and you may wonder if your husband or boyfriend even truly loves you. There are signs, however, that prove he sees you as someone special.
You won’t notice that your boyfriend sees you as someone special by only the big gestures he does, like spending money or taking you on vacation. No, it will be the little things that really mean so much more. The details in your relationship will be your indicators that your partner truly loves you.
What are the signs he sees you as someone special?
Of course, there are some obvious signs that your partner loves you and sees you as someone special, like committing in your relationship. However, it’s just as important to notice the small day-to-day things he does for you, like opening doors and holding your hand. But there is so much more than that.
Here are a few signs that show he truly sees you as a special part of his life.
1. He introduces you to his inner circle
If your boyfriend decides to introduce you to family and friends, this says so much about your status in his life. Many times, individuals wait a long time to introduce their partners to their inner circle, making excuses even. This is primarily because they’re waiting to see if the relationship will last before connecting others.
If you’re meeting these important people in his life, then that’s a sure sign that your partner sees you as someone special.
2. He respects boundaries
Someone who respects your boundaries is an authentic person indeed. And they think you’re pretty special if they are willing to show that respect in the first place. If your partner values your time, space, and peace of mind, then they really see you as someone important to them.
They acknowledge the particular things you hold sacred in your relationship as well, and don’t make you feel guilty for saying “no” about things you’d rather not do.
3. He’s supportive
Having a partner that provides support when you need it is not always easy to come by. We’d like to think that when we enter into a relationship, that our partner will support us and celebrate our wins. But this doesn’t always happen, unfortunately.
If he supports both your large and small achievements, he may see you as someone special. He may brag about the things you do to his friends and family, letting you know that he is also someone special you can count on.
4. He shares vulnerabilities
This is a big one. There are many people who hide their vulnerabilities from others in fear that these “weaknesses” will be used against them. However, if you have a partner that openly shares these vulnerabilities, this means that they trust you and see you as a special person in their life.
He may share things that happened to him in the past or even share issues from other relationships where he was at fault. Either way, this characteristic proves that he is open and honest about himself.
5. He’s protective
While it is important to retain a sense of autonomy, it’s special when someone seems protective of you. Now, I don’t mean that they hover and try to control you. It’s that feeling when he holds you just a bit tighter and stands up for you when someone is disrespectful.
He understands that you can take care of yourself, but also understands that you shouldn’t have to. It’s that sort of protective attitude that shows how much you mean to him.
6. He is willing to compromise
This is a major green flag. If your partner tries to compromise during disagreements instead of always trying to win the argument, then you might have a winner. More so, he might just think you’re someone special to him, and what you say is important. This means it’s worth it to try to understand both your differing perspectives.
Many people do not like changing their stubborn opinions, and it means so much when a partner can be open-minded and caring.
7. He makes time for you
Even if he is super busy and has a full schedule, if he thinks you’re special, he will find time to spend with you. This may mean just spending lunch break with you or taking a day off to do things you enjoy. You’ll know how he feels about you by how much time he carves out of his busy day to enjoy your company.
8. He’s interested in your hobbies
You can tell the difference between someone who is interested in your hobbies and someone who’s asking about them for ulterior reasons. If your partner seems interested in the things you’re doing and he seems genuine, then he probably thinks that you’re someone very special.
You’ll know he’s authentic if he seems interested in asking for something in return.
Does he see you as someone special?
While most men are pretty obvious about their feelings, some guard their emotions carefully. They may fear rejection or just don’t know how to express how they feel. If your partner is showing any of the above signs, then you may be in a healthy relationship. Maybe you are meant to be together.
One thing is for certain: he sees you as someone special. And this is wonderful.
