An individual who has insecure attachment is likely to have various problems in their romantic relationships. How to recognize if you have an insecure attachment style and stop it from ruining your relationships? We are all genetically programmed to search for affection and care, and the people who offer us love become the most important part of our lives. In this way, a strong emotional bond, based on the instinct, called attachment, forms between two individuals. The need to be close to someone is so
Dealing with the fear of failure is not everyone's cup of tea. Walt Disney got fired from a job because his editor found him 'unimaginative'. He also lost his rights to his first cartoon character that became popular - Oswald the Lucky Rabbit! It was only his resilience to the fear of failure that led him to come up with Mickey Mouse and Donald Duck and eventually - the Disneyland. Bill Gates (the founder of Microsoft), Steve Jobs (who founded Apple Inc), David Sanders (who
The decision-making process brings positive results. A scientific-based protocol could make the difference. How long do you think about eating before you get something to eat when you’re hungry? It probably doesn’t take long to grab a snack and go about your business, now does it? Well, decisions like these are simple and almost brainless, but other decisions take a little more thought. Sometimes a scientific-backed decision-making process is the only way to hash out some of those really involved situations. Whether or not you
What are the leadership skills that make someone a person everyone wants to follow? History is full of strong personalities who led countries and civilizations. People followed the rules established by them, carried their orders out, and even died for them. However, it wasn't about leadership. Fear of punishment and desire to stay afloat—that's what made crowds follow those headmen. Sure enough, these levers work—if you want to have your fortress or tomb. But they're futile if your goal is to assemble a team to
Charisma is subjective. What is certain is that charismatic people have some qualities and habits in common and you can adopt them too! You probably know someone who instantly lights up the room the minute they walk into it. It is hard to pinpoint how they work their magic. They seem to generate energy in people at the snap of their fingers and get them to agree with them instantly. He or she has a secret quality - charisma. Everyone wants it. The good news
Do you think that it's important to be a good person? Like most people, you probably try your utmost to treat others right and be a good person. But you must have learned that doing so comes at a cost. Also, you would have discovered that life is often in, not black or white, but shades of gray. The task of doing right is far from straightforward and involves a few harsh realities. That said, righteousness is an admirable quality. What goodness means Most people
Your closet is a cluttered mess, your inbox is full of unanswered correspondence, you have a presentation coming due that you haven’t started. You haven’t gone to the gym in a month, and you feel absolutely no motivation to change your attitude. Worse, nothing excites you and your attitude is full-on negative. What you do feel is guilt, embarrassment over your sluggishness, and bewilderment at your lackadaisical attitude. Are you just a lazy person? Probably not. Loss of motivation and a poor outlook can stem
Kids lately never spend time in nature. We all know what the tech evolution has done to our children in terms of physical activity. Long gone are the days when children took their play out of the house, given that these days it is common to find many watching TV and playing video games in laptops, gaming machines among others. Now, while tech advancements are very much welcome, it's about time we go back to the drawing board in a bid to encourage outdoor activities among kids.