Happiness has various meanings for different people. It’s not always easy to understand what makes people happy. What made me happy as a child has changed a bit now that I’m an adult. Well, ice cream still makes me happy, and so does splashing my feet in cool water. But, there are many other things which have changed me between then and now, and in turn, changed the way I see happiness. Now, I believe the things which make me happy are simple. But I
Our society tends to ridicule sensitive men who are not afraid to show their feelings. But in fact, they have some underestimated qualities. It’s not only the sensitive men who have feelings. All men do, even if they don’t show it. It is the conclusion of an American psychologist who has been studying the way men think and feel for 25 years. To give women a guide through the incomprehensible mind of so-called strong sex, Dr. George Weinberg published a book detailing the mechanisms of
Our attachment style affects everything from our choice of partner to our behavior within relationships. Anxious attachment style is just one attachment style but research suggests it is particularly damaging one. Before we go on, let’s have a quick recap of Attachment Theory. Psychologist John Bowlby coined the term Attachment Theory and used it to explain that children need to bond with a primary caregiver. If this caregiver does not respond in a nurturing way we form certain kinds of attachments. Anxious attachment style is one
Hands up who has given their partner the silent treatment in a relationship? Now let’s have another show of hands for all those that didn’t think it caused their partners any real pain? Would you be surprised to learn that silent treatment in a relationship causes actual physical pain? This is because ignoring someone activates the same area of the brain that responds to physical pain. This area is the anterior cingulate cortex or the ACC. The ACC is involved in many complex human processes.
Should you trust your gut feeling about relationships? Go with your gut. Trust your gut feelings. Follow your instincts. How many times have we heard this advice? But is there such a thing as a gut feeling about relationships and can science prove it? Actually, there is scientific evidence that suggests gut feelings have a very solid biological base. And it’s all to do with our brains elaborate method of keeping us safe from harm. Not only that, but studies have proven that the feelings
Making good decisions can be a daunting task. Well, there are specific steps you can take to ensure you make the right judgment. In this article, we will take a look at what rules you can follow to be sure you are making good decisions. 1. Be In Your Best Place When you are making a decision, you need to first ensure that you are in the right frame of mind. It means that you shouldn’t do it when something is affecting you. Of course,
I bet you have often wondered why a man in love is so different than a woman in love. There are some good reasons why the behavior varies between the sexes. This is not just an opinion, but even researchers have scientifically demonstrated that a man in love acts differently than a woman in love. Firstly, when a man falls in love with you is because he knows that he can be himself around you. He falls in love with you because he feels his
There are times when all of us stop to live in the present and start dreaming of the future. The past is the past, and we have no idea what the future holds. All we have is now, and although it is okay to have dreams, we should be realistic. Tomorrow is only a concept and as the wise have been saying, it never comes. The reality of life is that you are living when it’s happening. When we simplify our lives and live in