{"id":6969,"date":"2015-01-31T19:29:20","date_gmt":"2015-01-31T16:29:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/?p=6969"},"modified":"2015-01-31T19:29:20","modified_gmt":"2015-01-31T16:29:20","slug":"how-to-attract-the-right-partner-into-your-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/how-to-attract-the-right-partner-into-your-life\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Attract the Right Partner into Your Life"},"content":{"rendered":"
It’s 2015 and you still haven\u2019t found that perfect someone that you wish to spend the rest of your life with. Instead, you find yourself dating horrible, aggressive, needy or lazy guys or girls who have no similar interests or longevity.<\/p>\n
It seems that no matter how hard you try, pray or ask, you just can’t seem to attract the right sort of person into your life.<\/p>\n
You are not alone, statistics show that the average woman will experience four disastrous dates and seven different relationships before finding her lifelong partner, whereas men will experience four disastrous dates and eight failed relationships before finding his lifelong partner.<\/p>\n
Finding a match is not easy, there are billions of people in this world but really only a select few that can peak our interest. Where do you begin? How can you narrow down the search and attract the perfect partner?<\/p>\n
Whether you want to admit it or not, we all have a few undesirable traits that make us unique and different, whether it\u2019s\u00a0flaws, skeletons or other bad habits.<\/p>\n
Forget about perfect when it comes to\u00a0relationships<\/a>. Forget about trying to find someone that checks all your boxes because that person probably doesn\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n You want to find someone who is not the perfect person, but a perfect partner and a perfect partner is someone who is so good<\/em> that their flaws don\u2019t even compare to how good they are. You want to be able to accept their flaws and learn to love and appreciate them as part of their personality.<\/p>\n In return, you want to find someone that accepts your flaws and appreciates them as part of your personality, and the only way you can attract this type of lover into your life is by accepting and appreciating your own flaws first<\/strong>.<\/p>\n When you make peace with who you are and all your so-called undesirable traits, you open up room for someone else to come in and appreciate them with you. Without completing this step, you may constantly find yourself attracting partners who are unaccepting or non-committal.<\/p>\n Just ended a date with another jerk? Sorry to say, there is a part of you deep down (probably subconsciously<\/em>) that is attracting that jerk into your life and for whatever reason, it is necessary for you to encounter this jerk in order to move forward.<\/p>\n While this may be a hard pill to swallow, we are always attracting whatever energy we are putting out there or vibrating. The trap here is that we often have no idea what energy we are vibrating until we start looking at our thoughts, and often our thoughts can be centered around what we don\u2019t<\/em> want, rather than what we want.<\/p>\n#2: You attract what you put out there which is exactly what you need<\/h4>\n