{"id":55071,"date":"2020-10-19T17:41:39","date_gmt":"2020-10-19T17:41:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/?p=55071"},"modified":"2024-02-02T22:55:22","modified_gmt":"2024-02-02T19:55:22","slug":"how-to-get-out-of-the-friend-zone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/how-to-get-out-of-the-friend-zone\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Get Out of the Friend Zone in 6 Ways"},"content":{"rendered":"
Would you like to know how to get out of the friend zone? Well, there are several things you can do to accomplish that. In case you\u2019re not familiar with the term, \u2018the friend zone\u2019 is no place a man or woman wants to be.<\/p>\n
Being a friend and being in the \u2018zone\u2019 are two different things<\/strong>. It\u2019s called unrequited love. Let\u2019s say you\u2019re a guy who wants to be in a relationship with your crush, but she sees you like a brother, ugh, doesn\u2019t that make you cringe?<\/p>\n You see, you\u2019re doing all the things that a boyfriend would do without the rewards of a real relationship<\/strong>. You are the shoulder she cries on, you help her with moving or you just hang out together, but that is all.<\/p>\n So, while your heart is breaking, she is perfectly happy with her best friend. And I know this makes you angry.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s the good news! There are ways to get out of the friend zone. You don\u2019t have to dwell in that hollow place any longer. You can choose to end the friendship, but there are better ways of soothing your wounds <\/strong>and even moving forward. Here are several ways to do that.<\/p>\n While I\u2019m not a big fan of changing who you really are, right now, you\u2019re in the friend zone because of you. So, one way to get out of that place is to notice what attracts<\/strong> your \u2018friend\u2019 to other guys.<\/p>\n This will help you understand what she\u2019s looking for in a mate<\/a>. Maybe you can change up a bit and be a little more like the man she\u2019s after.<\/p>\n This one is for the girls stuck in the friend zone. Many times, a guy will not consider you relationship material if you\u2019re always saving yourself, being independent, and the like. But if you act like you need a hero<\/a> every now and then, this might just work.<\/p>\n One thing that guys love is being able to save their significant other. It\u2019s just part of who they are. Don\u2019t play a victim<\/strong>, don\u2019t go that far, just let him do some things for you.<\/p>\n Start flirting<\/a> a little. I don\u2019t mean just reach out and be a creep, no. Sometimes just hug her a little longer, or in a different way. Touch her shoulder, lower back, or other non-weirdo places. Start dressing better<\/strong> when around her. Dress like a guy that would get her attention and not like her little brother.<\/p>\n Trust me, she will notice the difference and you will be able to gauge her interest.<\/p>\n Instead of just joking around like friends, start making more eye-contact<\/a>. I don\u2019t mean stare at her in an odd manner. Just make eye-contact more often and when you do, smile as well. Do little things like open doors for her<\/strong> and pull out her chair. These little gestures will soon start to build a strange tension that doesn\u2019t spell out \u2018friend zone\u2019.<\/p>\n Want to know how to get out of the friend zone? Don\u2019t act like a friend anymore.<\/p>\nHow to get out of the friend zone<\/h2>\n
1. Become someone else<\/h3>\n
2. Let them be a hero<\/h3>\n
3. Be brave<\/h3>\n
4. Build romantic tension<\/h3>\n
5. Fewer texts but good ones<\/h3>\n