{"id":44718,"date":"2019-06-20T19:00:29","date_gmt":"2019-06-20T16:00:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/?p=44718"},"modified":"2019-06-20T19:00:29","modified_gmt":"2019-06-20T16:00:29","slug":"your-relationship-moving-too-fast","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/your-relationship-moving-too-fast\/","title":{"rendered":"Is Your Relationship Moving Too Fast? 10 Signs to Watch for"},"content":{"rendered":"
Relationships are beautiful things. They bring us joy, companionship, love, and yes, sometimes pain. There are also many questions when you\u2019re in a relationship \u2013 \u201cIs it time to move to the next level?\u201d<\/em>, \u201cAre there any issues you need to work out?\u201d<\/em>, and \u201cIs your relationship moving too fast?\u201d<\/em> I think we should focus<\/strong> on that last question because that one can help us answer the others, and even more.<\/p>\n If your relationship is rushed, you need to slow down<\/strong> immediately. Rash decisions in relationships leave you stuck in unions that just don\u2019t match. They can also be signs of dysfunction<\/a> in one or both partners. It\u2019s important to recognize the signs of moving at a rushed pace. So, let\u2019s look at a few.<\/p>\n I\u2019ve learned over time that moving directly from a breakup<\/a> to another relationship is never healthy. Yes, it means your relationship may not be real and you’re moving too fast. After using this pattern in my life, I finally learned that leaving a relationship<\/a> means you should take some time alone.<\/p>\n You need time to process what happened<\/strong> and what you\u2019ve learned from your mistakes. If you\u2019re bouncing between relationships, you\u2019re rushing things.<\/p>\n In the beginning, it\u2019s natural to want to spend time together. Maybe it\u2019s okay to spend lots of time together. But, if you\u2019re spending all your time with your new love, the relationship is probably moving a bit too fast.<\/p>\n If you notice this happening, take a step back<\/strong> and spend some time alone or with others. This will help you discover just how much you\u2019re interested in the other person.<\/p>\n This one should be a no-brainer, but for some reason, people still do this. People still offer to open joint bank accounts with new boyfriends or girlfriends<\/a>. You should never share financials with someone you\u2019ve only known a few weeks<\/strong> or even sometimes a few months.<\/p>\n It\u2019s important to wait and learn more about your partner\u2019s personality and traits. You could discover they\u2019re not so good with finances.<\/p>\n Oh, my my my, don\u2019t we love to move in together when we start dating. Honestly, it\u2019s okay if you\u2019re not against this prospect altogether, but it\u2019s not okay if you\u2019ve just met. Moving in together too soon can be disastrous for your new relationship.<\/p>\n This is because everyone has habits, and you might not tolerate such habits<\/a>. If you\u2019re already living together, it makes breaking up much harder. If you\u2019re planning cohabitation, your relationship could be evolving way too fast. Take a breather<\/strong>, and take a step back. Please evaluate what you\u2019re about to do.<\/p>\n Opening up to your significant other is important. However, sharing too much information<\/strong> too soon is not a good thing. Telling too much about yourself at first can scare your interest away. It\u2019s always best to share a little information about yourself at a time.<\/p>\n This lets the other person slowly soak up what you\u2019ve told them in a healthy manner.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re thinking about this person all the time, then your relationship could be moving too fast. Yes, it\u2019s okay to think deep love feelings some of the time, but other things should take up space<\/strong> within your mind as well. Thinking about your love interest<\/a> constantly alienates others and puts important responsibilities on the back burner.<\/p>\n One thing you should watch out for is extreme adoration. It\u2019s called putting someone on a pedestal. If your relationship is gaining momentum and moving too fast, you will notice this. Your new love interest will shower you with gifts, romantic gestures, and words.<\/p>\n While it\u2019s perfectly normal to be nice to each and share intimate moments, too many \u201clovey-dovey\u201d treatments are actually red flags<\/a>. Too much, in the beginning, will ruin the natural flow of the relationship.<\/p>\n If you\u2019ve begun to neglect friends and family, you could be rushing the relationship. Yes, the honeymoon phase will make you neglect a few people from time to time. Actually, this is a natural instinct. But if you keep doing this, you\u2019re not progressing<\/strong> in the relationship like you should be.<\/p>\n A healthy relationship leaves time for each partner to spend time away from each other and with friends from before the union.<\/p>\n This is one of the biggest signs<\/strong> of relationships that are moving too fast. If you\u2019re talking about marriage<\/a> a few weeks into the relationship, this cannot be a good thing. This means you are basing your commitment on temporary feelings.<\/p>\n When you start to fight, you will notice a drastic change in how you feel about marriage, then when you aren\u2019t fighting you will want to marry again. It\u2019s fickle behavior.<\/p>\n Some relationships start with an intensely intimate atmosphere<\/a>. You rarely talk about hobbies or anything besides intimacy. You engage in constant physical activity but rarely talk about your morals, standards or even things you could have in common.<\/p>\n All of a sudden you\u2019re in a relationship built on sex, just to be blunt. This means you\u2019ve moved way too fast. If you’re doing this, it’s also unhealthy<\/strong>.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n I\u2019m not trying to criticize the way anyone progresses in a relationship, but I know that some ways are healthier than others<\/strong>. Yes, it\u2019s possible to move fast and still stay in a relationship that grows into something incredible. Honestly, though, it\u2019s rare.<\/p>\n Usually rushed relationships end, and two people are left hurt and confused. Is your relationship moving too fast? Contemplate these signs and be honest with yourself.<\/p>\n References<\/strong>:<\/p>\n There are ways to tell if your relationship is evolving too fast, and you must consider these signs before moving on. Relationships are beautiful things. They bring us joy, companionship, love, and yes, sometimes pain. There are also many questions when you\u2019re in a relationship \u2013 \u201cIs it time to move to the next level?\u201d, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":45213,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ocean_post_layout":"","ocean_both_sidebars_style":"","ocean_both_sidebars_content_width":0,"ocean_both_sidebars_sidebars_width":0,"ocean_sidebar":"","ocean_second_sidebar":"","ocean_disable_margins":"enable","ocean_add_body_class":"","ocean_shortcode_before_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_after_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_before_header":"","ocean_shortcode_after_header":"","ocean_has_shortcode":"","ocean_shortcode_after_title":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_bottom":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_bottom":"","ocean_display_top_bar":"default","ocean_display_header":"default","ocean_header_style":"","ocean_center_header_left_menu":"","ocean_custom_header_template":"","ocean_custom_logo":0,"ocean_custom_retina_logo":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_height":0,"ocean_header_custom_menu":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_family":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_subset":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_size":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_unit":"px","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_line_height":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_unit":"","ocean_menu_typo_spacing":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_unit":"","ocean_menu_link_color":"","ocean_menu_link_color_hover":"","ocean_menu_link_color_active":"","ocean_menu_link_background":"","ocean_menu_link_hover_background":"","ocean_menu_link_active_background":"","ocean_menu_social_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_links_color":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_color":"","ocean_disable_title":"default","ocean_disable_heading":"default","ocean_post_title":"","ocean_post_subheading":"","ocean_post_title_style":"","ocean_post_title_background_color":"","ocean_post_title_background":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_image_position":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_attachment":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_repeat":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_size":"","ocean_post_title_height":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay":0.5,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay_color":"","ocean_disable_breadcrumbs":"default","ocean_breadcrumbs_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_separator_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_hover_color":"","ocean_display_footer_widgets":"default","ocean_display_footer_bottom":"default","ocean_custom_footer_template":"","ocean_post_oembed":"","ocean_post_self_hosted_media":"","ocean_post_video_embed":"","ocean_link_format":"","ocean_link_format_target":"self","ocean_quote_format":"","ocean_quote_format_link":"post","ocean_gallery_link_images":"on","ocean_gallery_id":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[58,46],"tags":[314,43,6,144],"yoast_head":"\nWhen things should slow down<\/h3>\n
1. One relationship to another<\/h4>\n
2. Seeing each other too much<\/h4>\n
3. Sharing bank accounts<\/h4>\n
4. Moving in together<\/h4>\n
5. Too much information<\/h4>\n
6. Obsessive thoughts<\/h4>\n
7. Putting each other on pedestals<\/h4>\n
8. Neglecting others<\/h4>\n
9. Marriage talk<\/h4>\n
10. It\u2019s too physical and too intense<\/h4>\n
If you\u2019re moving too fast, STOP!<\/h3>\n
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