{"id":2897,"date":"2014-07-20T17:00:58","date_gmt":"2014-07-20T14:00:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/?p=2897"},"modified":"2014-07-20T17:00:58","modified_gmt":"2014-07-20T14:00:58","slug":"12-hard-instructions-to-change-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/12-hard-instructions-to-change-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"12 Hard Instructions to Change Yourself"},"content":{"rendered":"
It\u2019s crazy how you end up there you always intended to be \u2013 that even the most tragic and stressful situations eventually teach important lessons that you never dreamed that you would have the opportunity to learn. Remember that many times when things fall apart, they actually finally fall into place<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Realizing that you are lost is the first step to live the life you want. The second step is to let go of the life you don\u2019t want. To make a big change in your life is pretty scary. But you know what is even scarier?<\/span> To regret<\/strong>. Vision without action is a daydream and action without vision is a nightmare. Your heart is free, have the courage to follow it.<\/p>\n They are these frightening, stressful choices that end up being the most notable. Without pain, there will be no change. But remember, the pain, just like everything in life, is there to learn from it and then to be released.<\/p>\n If you catch yourself in a circle trying to change someone or trying to defend yourself against someone who is trying to change you, go away. But if you are chasing a dream, do another step. And do not forget that sometimes this step will make changes to your dream or to design a new \u2013 it\u2019s okay to change your mind or have more than one dream.<\/p>\n Before you become friend with others, you must be a friend of yourself. Before you start to correct others, you need to fix yourself. Before making others happy, you have to make yourself happy. It\u2019s not called selfishness, it\u2019s called personal development. Once you find a balance within yourself, then you can balance and the world around you.<\/p>\n As much as you worry about what others think about you, you are theirs. Only when you require no approval from anyone else other than yourself may belong to you.<\/p>\n …before you realized that however, the objects from failed relationships didn\u2019t equally share, issues that have destroyed relationships probably shared. Because, how can you stand with confidence or see the same issues in your newest relationship and not realize the broken pieces that belong to you? By realizing your issues and by facing them, will make you a much happier person in the long term, than anything else in the world.<\/p>\n The more you can adapt to life situations, the higher you climb and you will be able to recover from falls more quickly.<\/p>\n Remember, an outspoken enemy is better than a friend who is lying. Show less attention to what people say and more attention to what they do. These actions will show you the truth, which will help you to measure the actual quality of your relationships on a long-term basis.<\/p>\n If you are grateful for what you have, you\u2019ll end up having more. Happiness is neither in the property nor in gold. The happiness dwells in the soul. The abundance is not how much you have, it is how you feel about what you have. When you take things for granted, happiness goes away.<\/p>\n But do not judge yourself from the past, do not live there anymore. Just because you\u2019re not where you would want to be today, that does not mean you will not be there someday. You can turn everything around you in a heartbeat making a simple choice \u2013 get up, try again, love again, live again and dream again.<\/p>\n There will be times when it seems that everything that could go wrong, go wrong. And you might feel like you\u2019re stuck there forever, but you will not. Sure, the sun stops shining sometimes and you can be found in one or two massive storms, but eventually, the sun will come out and shine again. Sometimes it depends on us to stay as positive as possible\u00a0so that we can again see the sun through the clouds.<\/p>\n Source: visualmeditation.co<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" There are many ways in which you can understand the life that you live and your personality. With the determination to move forward, towards a better life, you need to change yourself. 1. Everything is as it should be. It\u2019s crazy how you end up there you always intended to be \u2013 that even the […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":2903,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ocean_post_layout":"","ocean_both_sidebars_style":"","ocean_both_sidebars_content_width":0,"ocean_both_sidebars_sidebars_width":0,"ocean_sidebar":"","ocean_second_sidebar":"","ocean_disable_margins":"enable","ocean_add_body_class":"","ocean_shortcode_before_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_after_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_before_header":"","ocean_shortcode_after_header":"","ocean_has_shortcode":"","ocean_shortcode_after_title":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_bottom":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_bottom":"","ocean_display_top_bar":"default","ocean_display_header":"default","ocean_header_style":"","ocean_center_header_left_menu":"","ocean_custom_header_template":"","ocean_custom_logo":0,"ocean_custom_retina_logo":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_height":0,"ocean_header_custom_menu":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_family":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_subset":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_size":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_unit":"px","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_line_height":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_unit":"","ocean_menu_typo_spacing":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_unit":"","ocean_menu_link_color":"","ocean_menu_link_color_hover":"","ocean_menu_link_color_active":"","ocean_menu_link_background":"","ocean_menu_link_hover_background":"","ocean_menu_link_active_background":"","ocean_menu_social_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_links_color":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_color":"","ocean_disable_title":"default","ocean_disable_heading":"default","ocean_post_title":"","ocean_post_subheading":"","ocean_post_title_style":"","ocean_post_title_background_color":"","ocean_post_title_background":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_image_position":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_attachment":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_repeat":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_size":"","ocean_post_title_height":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay":0.5,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay_color":"","ocean_disable_breadcrumbs":"default","ocean_breadcrumbs_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_separator_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_hover_color":"","ocean_display_footer_widgets":"default","ocean_display_footer_bottom":"default","ocean_custom_footer_template":"","ocean_post_oembed":"","ocean_post_self_hosted_media":"","ocean_post_video_embed":"","ocean_link_format":"","ocean_link_format_target":"self","ocean_quote_format":"","ocean_quote_format_link":"post","ocean_gallery_link_images":"on","ocean_gallery_id":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[14,15],"tags":[168,340,343,145],"yoast_head":"\n2. You can\u2019t find your real self before you get lost in this world.<\/h3>\n
3. It is usually the most profound pain that causes you to develop your full potential.<\/h3>\n
4. One of the hardest decisions you will ever face in life is whether to go away or make another step forward.<\/h3>\n
5. You should take care of yourself first.<\/h3>\n
6. One of the greatest freedoms is to not care about what everyone else thinks for you.<\/h3>\n
7. You may need to stay alone for a while…<\/h3>\n
8. The only thing you can control absolutely is how you will react to things that you can\u2019t control.<\/h3>\n
9. Some people will lie to you.<\/h3>\n
10. If you focus on what you don\u2019t have, you will never have enough.<\/h3>\n
11. Yes, you may have failed in the past.<\/h3>\n
12. Yes, everything will be fine. Maybe not today, but eventually.<\/h3>\n