{"id":22086,"date":"2017-01-19T21:45:18","date_gmt":"2017-01-19T18:45:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/?p=22086"},"modified":"2017-01-19T21:45:18","modified_gmt":"2017-01-19T18:45:18","slug":"kind-people-fail-happy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/kind-people-fail-happy\/","title":{"rendered":"Kind People Often Fail at Being Happy and There Are 5 Reasons Why"},"content":{"rendered":"
I know several kind people who are giving and patient. When I look at them I see a smile, a soft voice, and quiet demeanor – it seems they are happy<\/strong>.<\/p>\n I suppose doing things for others and always being there makes a happy human, huh. Well, I\u2019m not so sure about that, to tell you the truth.<\/p>\n Happy humans, I mean truly contented individuals aren\u2019t always the giving kind. It seems the world is a little backward in that area.\u00a0Kind people are deeply flawed<\/a><\/strong>, believe it or not, well, at least for the most part. What? You seem shocked. Well, let me explain to you why kind people fail to be happy.<\/p>\n Kind people are not always angels who have fallen to earth to do good will. They have multifaceted personalities<\/strong> like the rest of us. Whether you are kind or more on the self-absorbed side, there are variances about you that determine whether or not you are truly happy<\/a>.<\/p>\n Kind people give. The thing is, they tend to give when they are already stretched to their limits<\/strong>.\u00a0Sometimes, they can even find themselves in a bad predicament by giving too much and never expecting anything in return.<\/p>\n They are generally the ones who do not barter or trade-handing out with no hope of return. While their hearts may be full at the moment, in long term, they desire someone to give to them in the same amount.<\/p>\n Kind people expect the best out of those around them. As they help and donate their time, they see the world as being on the same charitable with level.<\/p>\n Unfortunately, the world is not always as giving as those who give to it<\/strong>. People who are kind have high expectations<\/a> that rarely get fulfilled by others. This can make some people feel hopeless in their good deeds.<\/p>\n People who are giving tend to work harder than those who are not. When help is needed, kind individuals are always ready to jump right in and get the job done. They often suffer from lack of sleep, rest and even nutrition in order to make others happy. Good people<\/a> make sacrifices more often<\/strong>.<\/p>\n There is only so much a kind person can contribute to society. They may become too emotionally involved<\/a> in the fact that their resources do not match their ability to help.<\/p>\n This is one of the worst feelings in the world to them. Instead of giving up, however, they tend to work even harder and brood in their failings to reach their own set goals. They just always wish they could help more<\/strong>.<\/p>\n You know what they say about smart people, right? Intelligence<\/a> is often accompanied by depression.<\/p>\nHappiness is a many-layered emotion, filled with complicated aspects.<\/h3>\n
They Give<\/h4>\n
They have high expectations<\/h4>\n
They work too hard<\/h4>\n
They are limited<\/h4>\n
Kind people are intelligent<\/h4>\n