{"id":22038,"date":"2017-01-16T21:07:59","date_gmt":"2017-01-16T18:07:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/?p=22038"},"modified":"2017-01-16T21:07:59","modified_gmt":"2017-01-16T18:07:59","slug":"anxiety-in-relationships-7-tips","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/anxiety-in-relationships-7-tips\/","title":{"rendered":"Anxiety in Relationships: 7 Things We Want Our Loved Ones to Know"},"content":{"rendered":"
For me, anxiety in relationships is common. I am almost impossible to live with, ask anyone in my family and the response will be interesting.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s not that I enjoy being angry, frustrated and impossible<\/a>, it\u2019s just my reaction to the chemicals racing through my brain, the weather, my friends, and hell, it\u2019s everything\u2026vs me\u2026it\u2019s all too much<\/strong>. I call it life, while most people refer to it as anxiety.<\/strong> For loved ones, it\u2019s the beast from below\u00a0and hit the deck if the beast is in a mood.<\/p>\n Okay, enough with the horror story, and the beat-myself-up mentality. What I really want to convey is that I have a heart, just like the rest of you. I want peace, I want friendship and I want to love.<\/p>\n The sad part is, these things are 10 times harder to achieve for someone with anxiety. To help you, my loved ones, here are 7 things I want you to know about anxiety in relationships.<\/strong><\/p>\n So, I seem to be unappreciative of what you do. I get it, I\u2019m an ungrateful brat. But really, I notice every single little detail of every single kindness you hand out.<\/p>\n When you hug me, it\u2019s all that I need at the moment\u00a0when you call, I hang on every word and when you sit there beside me silent and desperate for a solution, you are offering a temporary solution<\/a> already. Sometimes just your presence is amazing<\/strong>, and I really do appreciate everything you do for me.<\/p>\n It\u2019s hard for you to understand, I know, and sometimes I push limits to the breaking point. I want you to know that no matter how much you think you can\u2019t understand me, and maybe you don\u2019t, what matters is you try.<\/strong><\/p>\n I see you try, as you talk to me for hours and offer help. As you stay up with me till the dawn, I remember who cared enough to sacrifice time. Thank you.<\/p>\nAlthough you may not understand, we need your support!<\/h3>\n
1. I really love you<\/h4>\n
2. Thank you for trying<\/h4>\n
3. I can\u2019t control it<\/h4>\n