{"id":18533,"date":"2016-06-22T20:46:30","date_gmt":"2016-06-22T17:46:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/?p=18533"},"modified":"2016-06-22T20:46:30","modified_gmt":"2016-06-22T17:46:30","slug":"take-long-time-to-let-go-of-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/take-long-time-to-let-go-of-a-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Why People Who Take a Long Time to Let Go of a Relationship Are the Best to Date"},"content":{"rendered":"
We all have baggage that consists of previous relationships, regrets, and epic fails.<\/p>\n
But instead of running from someone who has obviously been seriously involved with their ex, knowing about previous relationships and break-ups of the person you like can tell you a lot about their personality and what kind of commitment you can expect from their side.<\/p>\n
There are two kinds of major mistakes people do when they try to let go of a relationship:<\/strong> fall into a new compensative liaison right away to dull the pain with new emotions<\/a> and be convinced that you will never meet anyone as good as your ex.<\/p>\n In order not to make these mistakes, love counselors advise people to take time finding themselves<\/strong> and seeking closure before starting to date again.<\/p>\n However, how much time should one take to let go of a relationship? Many will say that it\u2019s better to take it slow.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s why people who don\u2019t rush to get back on the dating market again are much better partners than those who just fall in and out of love<\/strong>.<\/p>\n The longer it takes to let go of a relationship, the more significant it was. Which means that it touched upon your soul and having experienced that now you know better to seek something genuine and real, instead of a short-term fling.<\/p>\n If the previous relationship touched upon your perspective partner\u2019s soul<\/a>, most likely it also means that he or she now knows better<\/strong> what they want from a relationship and their partner, which means your relationship match is already on a better-off start.<\/p>\n Relationships are subject to great emotional turmoil and people who have gone through really meaningful ones know how to control their own feelings<\/a> and expectations. This is a kind of trait you want your serious partner you have.<\/p>\n There\u2019s a really fascinating research<\/a> that says that half of the couples get back together again after a break-up<\/strong>. The more time has passed after the person you like has split up with their ex, the less likely they are to reassess the situation and fall back in love again.<\/p>\n People who have experienced something real and went through all the stages of letting go will not settle for anything less than real love and are actively seeking it. They won\u2019t act out or get scared of their feelings and run away.<\/strong><\/p>\n No matter the reason for the break-up, being able to appreciate the best parts of past relationships and cherish good moments is a sign of a truly mature soul<\/a>. But this deep appreciation comes only after a long thinking and self-analysis.<\/p>\n When you meet the person who took a while to get over their past relationship, you can be sure that they will treat you right and respect your feelings<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Having been involved with someone for quite a bit of time means that the participants of this relationship mastered the art of laying the foundation for strong connections: they know when to take the lead and when to be led, they have mastered respect and understanding to perfection.<\/p>\n People who have been in a long-term relationship know that in real life not everything is as pinky and trouble-free as shown in romantic dramas. And you shouldn\u2019t have to worry about disappointing them with your sleepy morning look or occasional nervous breakdown.<\/p>\n Having endured loss, people are more likely to cherish the next thing they will build investing all their experience, knowledge and feelings into. They are willing to try to achieve something great without fear of fail<\/strong> because they have already made an honest attempt and truly got over the pain, focusing on the bright sides of the past relationship.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s be honest<\/strong> \u2013 most of us take a long time to forget the person we once really loved, but not everyone is brave enough to admit it. Having the courage to talk openly about previous love engagements means that the person has truly moved on and is sincere about what he\/she feels about you.<\/p>\n1. They value their own and other people\u2019s time<\/h3>\n
2. They know how to build strong emotional connections<\/h3>\n
3. They are truly open to new relationships<\/h3>\n
4. They don\u2019t fear intimacy and are prone to unhealthy attractions<\/h3>\n
5. They know how to be grateful<\/h3>\n
6. They have experience in building strong relationships<\/h3>\n
7. They know that dating isn\u2019t a romantic movie<\/h3>\n
8. They know the price of a good relationship<\/h3>\n
9. They are honest about their problems and feelings<\/h3>\n
10. They know how to have fun<\/h3>\n