{"id":18467,"date":"2016-06-18T14:45:11","date_gmt":"2016-06-18T11:45:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/?p=18467"},"modified":"2021-11-28T16:39:37","modified_gmt":"2021-11-28T16:39:37","slug":"being-alone-better-person-deserve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/being-alone-better-person-deserve\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Reasons Why Being Alone Is Much Better Than Being with a Person Who Doesn\u2019t Deserve You"},"content":{"rendered":"
Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you?<\/p>\n
I have and I know what it feels like.<\/p>\n
Being in a relationship with someone who doesn\u2019t treat you like a loving partner would treat you, or who simply don’t care about you, feels like a sweet little lie. Everyone around you thinks that you are happy\u00a0because you are in a relationship, but deep down you know that something is not right<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Deep down you feel that you should rather be alone. You should listen to this feeling. Don\u2019t make the mistake and ignore the voice in your head that tells you that you deserve better. This voice is right. You really deserve better.<\/p>\n You deserve a partner who loves you for who you are, who treats you with respect and who is there for you when you are down. You deserve a fulfilling relationship that makes you smile, not cry.<\/p>\n You might be afraid to be alone. I understand that. I felt the same way when I decided to let go of a person who didn\u2019t deserve me. The only thing that matters in this situation is that you don\u2019t focus on your fear<\/strong>. Instead, focus on all the possibilities that being alone brings along.<\/p>\n And yes, there are many reasons why being alone is much better than being with a person who doesn\u2019t deserve you. \u00a0Here are some of them:<\/p>\n A healthy and supportive relationship is one of the most wonderful things that can happen to you. To know that your partner loves and supports you provides you with positive energy all day long. However, if you are together with someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you and treats you accordingly, your energy level will suffer<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Unhappy and unfulfilling relationships are like a stubborn cold that you simply can\u2019t get rid of. You fight for one week and finally, when it seems to get better, you suffer from a relapse. The same is true for toxic relationships<\/a> with people who don\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n Every time you think that it will get better, they drain your energy more and more. It\u2019s time to get out. It\u2019s time for positive energy and the only way to get positive energy is by abandoning the people who provide you with negative energy.<\/p>\n But why is it so important that you get rid of someone who drains your energy? Well, because negative energy leads to a negative life and vice versa. The more time you spend with people, who have a negative impact on you<\/a>, the more negativity you will attract. In this case, the law of attraction works against you.<\/p>\n There is a reason why all successful people say that surrounding yourself with positive people and getting rid of negative people<\/a> is so important.<\/p>\n Just imagine how much more creative, outgoing and motivated to achieve things in life you would be if you\u2019d spend your time with someone who inspires you and who loves you.<\/p>\n This person might be someone else, or it might be you. Yes, you can be the source of your own positive energy and love yourself<\/a> is inevitable on the path to personal fulfillment. Being alone can have an immensely positive effect on your life.<\/p>\n Sooner or later you will regret spending too much time with someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you. You will regret every minute that you spent with this person. You\u2019ll think about how you could have invested this time in improving yourself and your life.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t live a life of regret. Life is too short for regrets. Live your life, but don\u2019t live it with someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you<\/strong>. Before you do that, you should live it alone. And hey, when you spend your alone time the right way, it will be easier than ever before to attract someone who actually deserves you.<\/p>\n One of the most important reasons why you should rather be alone than being with a person who doesn\u2019t deserve you is directly linked to the decision to attract this person in the first place. Does that sound confusing?<\/strong> I\u2019ll explain.<\/p>\n You are currently together with this negative person because you chose it. You made the conscious choice to spend your time with this person. Now that you know that it wasn\u2019t the best choice you ever made, it\u2019s time to make sure that you don\u2019t make the same mistake twice.<\/p>\n How can you make sure that your next choice will be wiser?<\/strong> By being alone and by thinking about what you truly want. Spend as much time alone as you possibly can and think about what qualities a person who deserves you should have.<\/p>\n1. A Person Who Doesn\u2019t Deserve You Will Drain Your Energy<\/h3>\n
2. Positive Energy Leads to a Positive Life<\/h3>\n
3. You Will Regret Every Second You Wasted<\/h3>\n
4. Being Alone Gives You Time to Find Out What You Truly Want<\/h3>\n
5. Your Self-Esteem Wants You to Be Alone<\/h3>\n