{"id":16868,"date":"2016-04-16T13:44:15","date_gmt":"2016-04-16T10:44:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/?p=16868"},"modified":"2020-09-08T15:28:02","modified_gmt":"2020-09-08T15:28:02","slug":"things-should-stop-letting-people-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/things-should-stop-letting-people-do\/","title":{"rendered":"20 Things You Should Finally Stop Letting People Do to You"},"content":{"rendered":"
Even though they have no control over the things done to them, they can choose not to be lessened by them. They can decide not to let the opinions and actions of others occupy their mind and heart.<\/p>\n
They have control over who they stand beside and who to let go. When others push their views, remember that these views do not have to be accepted.<\/p>\n
People should never squander their precious time attempting to clarify themselves to those who have confirmed that they\u2019re always bound to misread them. The dignity and intellect of people are never identified by the arguments<\/a> they may have won. They have voiced that it simply wasn\u2019t worth their time.<\/p>\n Remaining positive is a choice everyone has, and they need to be intelligent enough to turn away from any negativity. It has never been worth the time to dwell on things that are negative.<\/p>\n The scars people carry are remembrances of their real past and show they\u2019ve now moved on. Don\u2019t be afraid to own the scars as each one has a story that should be told.<\/p>\n Everyone is a beginner and doesn\u2019t begin by being excellent. By having the daring to make mistakes, people will grow wiser and stronger. People should never listen to the ones that rebuke them for their mistakes.<\/p>\n The goal for today is to be a better person than yesterday and people only have to prove themselves to themselves and not to others.<\/p>\n Bullying is never okay, and nobody ever has the right to bully another person<\/a>. Some people thrive on pushing other people\u2019s ego right into the ground and then stomping on it. These people have to be courageous enough to stand their ground and not give them any latitude. The only way a bully can make a person feel small is when that person gives them the power to do so.<\/p>\n A true friend is a person who loves someone for what they really are and continue to inspire them to be better. People need to keep only their real friends close and also to be one a good friend to others. Don\u2019t ever befriend a person that is disloyal.<\/p>\n Whenever people find out that someone is lying to them, they need to speak up right away. These people that are lying will do it constantly because they believe they\u2019ll get the person to believe them eventually. This is garbage and should never be taken seriously. Never take part in their deceit.<\/p>\n When people do things for others, it most likely won\u2019t be noticed until they stop. People deserve better, and they need to realize that – this is not right. Try to be around people that are fun, don\u2019t take others for granted, and won\u2019t leave their friends in a bind.<\/p>\n If a person isn\u2019t available when needed, then they most likely are not worth being around. Don\u2019t be their go-to person when they decide they have a little time left over.<\/p>\n People need to be with those who they love and not the ones who refuse love. Be around those who brighten the day just by being there.<\/p>\n One should never let hate into their heart no matter how disgraceful the act was that someone did. No good comes from trying to fight the hatred with hate. It\u2019s harmful to the mind, body, and soul.<\/p>\n It should always be remembered that the first person that apologizes becomes the bravest. And the first one to forgive the other\u00a0winds up being the strongest. Finally, the first one that decides to move on is always the happiest.<\/p>\n One\u2019s life is really too short to battle with their past and to deal with others who keep bringing it up. There are jealous people that want the past to ruin a person\u2019s present life. If a person acknowledges these actions, they\u2019re helping them. Just move on by practicing forgiveness and acceptance. One of the first steps to being happy is to let the past go.<\/p>\n There are things that can\u2019t be modified, but a person can change. People need to go with the flow because changes always happen for a reason. It may not be an easy thing to do, but it\u2019ll always be worthwhile.<\/p>\n People shouldn\u2019t allow others to interfere with pursuits that are meaningful to them. Stay on the path and move with the ideas and activities that are important.<\/p>\n When people decide on a path to take, life will attempt to test them as to how serious they are in their pursuit. There may even be some feedback that\u2019s negative. No one should ever allow their spirit to be crushed<\/a> by another person. It doesn\u2019t matter what other people think so continue to be passionate and pursue those dreams.<\/p>\n Difficult times will usually lead a person to a great life. So, keep pressing on and keep believing as it will all be worth the efforts.<\/p>\n 19. Don\u2019t listen to schemes offering a quick-fix<\/strong> \u2013 Honestly, everything that is worth getting in life will take time and committed effort. Wishes can never make things change. However, as people change and grow in their lives, they can make the changes that will make a difference in themselves.<\/p>\n2. Don\u2019t drown in negativity.<\/h4>\n
3. Don\u2019t be ashamed of the scars.<\/h4>\n
4. Don\u2019t listen to those who criticize.<\/h4>\n
5. Don\u2019t be blinded by others.<\/h4>\n
6. Don\u2019t accept any bullying.<\/h4>\n
7. Don\u2019t allow \u201cfriends\u201d to be disloyal.<\/h4>\n
8. Don\u2019t listen to someone who continues to lie.<\/h4>\n
9. Don\u2019t let others take advantage.<\/h4>\n
10. Don\u2019t be used as a back-up.<\/h4>\n
11. Don\u2019t let the wrong one get between.<\/h4>\n
12. Don\u2019t hate them back.<\/h4>\n
13. Don\u2019t allow grudges to take hold.<\/h4>\n
14. Don\u2019t let others try to poison the present.<\/h4>\n
15. Don\u2019t believe that change is bad.<\/h4>\n
16. Don\u2019t be misguided by others.<\/h4>\n
17. Don\u2019t listen to negativity.<\/h4>\n
18. Don\u2019t let others discourage the efforts.<\/h4>\n
20. Don\u2019t listen to others about being happy.<\/h4>\n