{"id":12041,"date":"2015-07-14T21:45:02","date_gmt":"2015-07-14T18:45:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/?p=12041"},"modified":"2015-07-14T21:45:02","modified_gmt":"2015-07-14T18:45:02","slug":"this-is-the-thing-all-healthy-couples-have-in-common","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/this-is-the-thing-all-healthy-couples-have-in-common\/","title":{"rendered":"This Is the Thing All Healthy Couples Have in Common"},"content":{"rendered":"
However, we are not alone in this world, so we have all come to understand that sometimes people will just not see things in the way that we do. This fact becomes more apparent the longer you are in a relationship with someone. In today’s society, many people are taught just to keep their mouth shut and go with the flow<\/strong>! So how do healthy couples manage to survive in today’s world?<\/p>\n In a relationship, this leads to passive-aggressive behavior<\/a> that is toxic to a long-lasting agreement. So, what do healthy couples who have been together for years, even decades, have in common<\/em>? They argue<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Each and every one of us makes mistakes. We are by no means perfect, and you should be okay with that. When it comes to being in a relationship, we are sometimes placed into situations we normally wouldn\u2019t experience if we were on our own.<\/p>\n Typically, this is fine and gives the relationship some excitement, but it can also get us into trouble<\/strong>. If you find that you were the one who made the mistake, own up to it, admit it and be honest<\/a>. If your partner made the mistake, make an effort to understand that the person might not have known what to do in that given situation.<\/p>\n While no gender shall be specifically named, in an argument when your partner asks you to explain how their actions made you feel, or why you are so upset, explain it to them! Using responses like \u201cWell, you should know\u201d<\/strong> or \u201cnever mind\u201d<\/strong> will not solve the issue, and will, in fact, make it worse.<\/p>\n Are you looking to stick through with your partner<\/em>? Then you have to communicate why you feel the way you do about a situation. No one is a mind reader, and, therefore, the little ticks that set you off cannot be predicted. Be as understanding and open as you can<\/strong>.<\/p>\nHowever, the catch is, healthy couples argue with a few simple guidelines.<\/h2>\n
They Own Up To Their Mistakes<\/h3>\n
Healthy Couples Clearly Express Their Feelings<\/h3>\n
They Are Respectful<\/h3>\n