You may not believe it, but introverted men are some of the best to date and to be with because they love completely differently than most.

Introverts don’t have the best reputation in the dating world. They don’t necessarily want to socialize a great deal and they tend to keep to themselves. However, dating an introverted man has some underrated perks that you may not expect. They love differently to most men, and this is what makes them great to be with. If you’ve ever dated an introvert, you may know some of this already.

If not, let me convince you of the secret benefits of dating introverted men.

1. They value their own space

Introverted men tend to like their own space. After social events, they may need some time to rest and recharge and can prefer to do this alone. This gives both you and your partner time apart to be individuals, making time together more special.

They might get uncomfortable with too much time together but will value if you allow them to recharge. Although this can be misconstrued as rejection, it’s really just that introverted males need a little bit of space. Give them this, and they will show their gratitude more than you can imagine.

2. They don’t get jealous

Introverted men may not attend every social gathering, but they won’t get jealous of the time you spend away from them. They will understand that you enjoy social events more than they do and won’t try to keep you away from them. Nor will they become envious of the time you spend without them.

Introverted males are much more secure in relationships because they don’t feel the need to be with you 100% of the time. They cherish the time they do have and encourage you to maintain your other relationships.

3. They think before they act

A typical trait of an introvert is that they tend to overthink everything. This is not necessarily a bad thing. Introverted males will make sure that all dates are thought through, they will think before they talk and before they do anything in the relationship.

You are important to them, and they will make sure all plans are properly thought through. They don’t tend to make rash decisions or silly mistakes. No decisions will be made without careful consideration, so introverted men will be highly unlikely to do anything to hurt their relationships.

4. They’re great listeners

Introverts enjoy thinking, and they are often told they are too quiet. Usually, they are just thinking things through. They may not respond right away, and they may seem like they aren’t paying attention, but they take time to carefully digest what you are saying.

They will let you get through the whole story before they respond to you and take everything into account before giving you an answer. Introverted men don’t feel the need to dominate a conversation, so they will take the time and care to listen to you properly.

5. They give great advice

Due to the fact they’re great listeners, they also give great advice. They take everything into account and make sure everything is well considered before offering any help. Taking everything into consideration makes them much more level headed, and they will help you approach a problem from all sides.

They will help talk through any issues carefully and in full detail. The combination of this means that introverted men make great partners in life. They will hear what you say and make sure to take it into consideration, whether it is a problem or not.



6. They’re honest about their problems

Introverts have small social circles because they don’t tend to socialize with large groups of people. This means that they may lean on you or other close friends to deal with problems. This makes them much more honest with problems, coming to you for support and advice.

At the same time, they will do the same for you and shower you in love and affection when needed. Due to their small circles, introverted men will get to know you much more deeply. They will learn when something is wrong to the point you don’t even need to tell them. They will learn when you want to talk and be there when you do.

7. They’re all or nothing

Introverts don’t tend to give attention to things they don’t feel are worth it. This means that when they commit to you, they will commit fully and completely. You will get a higher proportion of their energy and they will shower you with love.

Introverts don’t tend to enjoy giving their energy to many people, they find it exhausting. Therefore, they will give you much more time and much more energy than most. They just prefer it that way.

Dating is difficult and finding the right partner is half the battle. Opening your mind to an introverted man might be the answer to all of your relationship troubles. Forget what you thought you knew about introverts. They all have their strengths and can bring real value to any relationship.

Francesca Forsythe, LL.M., M.Phil.

Copyright © 2014-2020 Life Advancer. All rights reserved. For permission to reprint, contact us.

This Post Has 4 Comments

  1. Avatar
    Joachim

    Thank you Francesca. I love this read. I’m an introvert myself and most, if not all of what you say here is very true as I have experienced some myself. But it’s hard to find someone who really understands an introvert without labelling them a “boring.” We simply just can’t spend all that energy on everyone and certainly not on everything. I’m proud to be one, and happy that we do make good lovers.

  2. Avatar
    Matt

    Hello I saw this post on Facebook and absolutely love it. TY for this I just realized after 39 years of life that how I feel has an actual name, Introvert. I cried when I found out it s considered a mental disorder because 3 of my five kids have it too. I never wanted them to be like me so I tried to encourage them to be more out spoken and tried to nicely and lovely support them but help them to stand up for themselves and have a voice. I can say because I never pushed them they are a bit better than me but still alot like me. I am still dealing with accepting this as I just realized I am not shy, anti social, or just different and not knowing why I always felt something is wrong with me and why I can t just get over it. Years of negative comments from people that are suppose to love me. Again TY I hope the more I read and learn I will one day embrace being an introvert the way I do for my kids.

  3. Avatar
    Malik Abdulwahab

    Really happy to know that I’m an introvert..
    Thank you

  4. Avatar
    Malik Abdulwahab

    How can I share this at what’sapp ..?

Leave a Reply