Self-sabotage is often that one thing that stops us from living your dreams. Could you be sabotaging yourself without even knowing? Check out the 10 signs below. Whether you are guilty of self-sabotage or not, most probably, you have a dream life. In your dream life, everything is perfect the way you want them to be. You are working on your dream job. You love your job so much that you feel excited every morning when you are about to step out of the door
There are some negative behavior patterns that you may be following unconsciously and that is destroying your self-confidence without you even knowing. You put on your favorite jeans. You just got new shoes and you love them. Your favorite jacket is ready to go. You look good and you know it. Suddenly, the old patterns emerge. You start having doubts. Maybe the jeans are too tight. That other person, who’s always stealing the spotlight, is looking way better than you. What’s going on? Where did
Introverts are not known for making open expressions of love, or extravagant gestures of any kind. So how do you know when they love you? 1.They share their interests with you One way you know that an introvert loves you is that they begin to discuss the things that interest them with you. Introverts are often reticent about sharing their interests with people, as they usually expect that people won’t really care about the things they care about, and they generally decide it’s not even
If you believe that good people deserve good things happening in their lives, you may find yourself doubting this sometimes. Truly, so many selfless, inspiring, and strong people sometimes get into all kinds of difficult relationships instead of finding a nice, kind partner. It seems unfair and disappointing, and that’s why many people wonder – why does this happen? Strong people usually overcome various challenges more easily than the others do. They are good in self-developing in working on themselves, but they still need to
Would you believe me if I told you that a nerdy guy could be the ideal person to make a relationship? We have all been through the anguish of the dazzling Zac Efron lookalikes, who know exactly how to push our buttons and break our hearts. After my fourth or fifth bout of heartache, I decided it was time to take my mother’s advice and look for ‘a nice boy’. This is when I found the hidden gem of the nerdy guy that most would
Do you want to be smarter? Then begin to adopt these hobbies and habits! Smarts don't grow on trees and to get a bit of extra oomph when it comes to your cognitive abilities, it is important to work on them on an everyday basis. Now, I’m not saying that you can drastically increase your level of intelligence even if you work on it diligently for months, but in my opinion, smartness differs from intelligence. Intelligence is your ability to absorb new skills and knowledge
Comfort zone is a cozy place – sort of like comfort food. It makes us feel secure, safe, and content. But both have their drawbacks. If we have a regular diet of comfort foods, we are bound to gain weight. If we have a life of staying within our comfort zone, we don’t grow and develop. We settle for the “known” and the predictable, and very little rocks our boats of complacency. The problem with a life within our comfort zone, however, is that as
Here you sit, pretty miserable and alone, feeling stuck in life and knowing that you need to make some changes. Your job has gotten beyond stressful; your relationship is on the rocks; you gained back all 40 pounds that you tried so hard to lose; your best friend and confidant has moved away. But you don’t move. Why are you feeling stuck in life? Well, it’s because you are telling yourself some pretty powerful lies about not having what it takes to make those changes.