How to Spot Fake Nice People in Your Life – 5 Signs to Look for

///How to Spot Fake Nice People in Your Life – 5 Signs to Look for

Often toxic persons fake themselves to seem like they are nice people. But, they really aren’t.

Friendships are probably the most important relationships in our lives, especially if we have good solid friends. But sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference between a nice and a fake person.

Use this guide to sift through who are the truly nice people and remove yourself from the fake ones.

1. Genuinely nice people will support all your actions.

A nice person will support and encourage in any capacity. It can be a hobby or a career change, but an authentic, real friend cares and will be on the journey with you.

2. Love your quirky personality.

We all have elements of our personality that are a little quirky, a real friend will stand by you despite your quirks,

3. Eternal forgiveness.

As well all make mistakes, a nice person will always forgive, and they will do this because they value the friendship more than the mistake you made.

4. Always in touch.

Your real friends will always stay in touch with you because they are interested in you and your life. You might notice that fake people will only contact you.

5. They make time for you.

Your real friends will always make time for you, if it’s a Saturday morning coffee or a phone call after work, they want to spend time with you and they will.

It’s also important to be able to recognize the signs of a fake friend, and not just what a real friend is.

Below are some things to look out for if you suspect a fake friend.

1. Fake people are passive aggressive.

Fake friends are really good at speaking in a passive-aggressive way. They always find a way to insult you with a compliment. This will slowly reduce your self-confidence and often you won’t realize it’s even happening.

2. Fake people constantly let you down.

Fake friends will often initiate plans and never follow through. They agree to plan an event with you but leave it up to you to do everything. They will often have the perfect excuse as to why they couldn’t make it so that they don’t want to feel guilty about it.

3. Fake people expect you to drop everything.

A fake friend will expect you to always put them first. They think that your life revolves around them and their situation will always be worse. Again this is all about competition.

4. Fake people gossip a lot.

This should be a huge red flag for you if your “friend” gossips about others. If they are saying things about others, what do you think they are saying about you? We all need to vent but when they are ripping apart it goes to show they aren’t truly nice people.

5. Fake people will always make themselves seem more important.

Even if you got a new job or a promotion at work, your fake friend will always out-do you. They will always outdo you and your news won’t be good news, their news will always be better. To them, it’s a competition.

One less fake person is better than a bunch of unreliable people in your life. Remember these points the next time a friend lets you down, they could just be having a bad time or they are a fake and it is better to cut them out of your life.

By Holly W.


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By | 2018-04-11T16:57:01+00:00 December 15th, 2016|Categories: Relationships & Social Life, Social life|Tags: , , , |62 Comments


  1. Sonia M. Franco Acevedo December 15, 2016 at 2:16 pm - Reply

    Everything is true.

  2. Adrienne Wright December 16, 2016 at 10:14 pm - Reply

    Thank you! A good birthday gift!

  3. Veronica Hinds April 28, 2017 at 2:03 pm - Reply

    Ohhhhhh I know a few of these!

  4. Alex Raissez April 28, 2017 at 2:17 pm - Reply

    Yes there r fake people out there. They have a fake smile, manners., u name it. God did not make fake people! Js!

    • Vonda Gee April 28, 2017 at 6:28 pm - Reply

      To be honest I would rather experience a fake person with manners than an ill mannered person. It really

  5. Crystal Lee April 28, 2017 at 2:19 pm - Reply

    One just cleared themself out of my world… I still Pray and Send Blessings tho… Will not change who I am…I just get Blessed in return

  6. Marilyn Pierre April 28, 2017 at 2:24 pm - Reply

    They act like Jekyll and Hyde

  7. Tomm Boswell April 28, 2017 at 2:50 pm - Reply

    There is love and there is selfishness. Choosing one is easy. Its when we try to mix them that we get confused.

  8. Lisa N Andrew Banks April 28, 2017 at 2:53 pm - Reply

    Maybe nice people don’t want to be your friends. But their just being nice and you think there your friend . Or maybe there just assholes

  9. Drapez Drapeau April 28, 2017 at 2:54 pm - Reply

    Pay Attention, or listen to another fren that observes ur interactions. Do the same things ppl do to u to them and you’ll see an Odd look appear on there face OR they’ll be furious with u. DON’T APOLOGIZE, eventual good or bad, it was for the best.

  10. Sara Catherine Blaise April 28, 2017 at 2:58 pm - Reply

    Yikes! I’m surrounbded :/

  11. Elena Anele April 28, 2017 at 3:05 pm - Reply

    Totally agreed!!

  12. Sonia Kurfess April 28, 2017 at 3:06 pm - Reply

    I can spot a fake person from a mile away before they open their fake mouths

  13. Harman Mrar April 28, 2017 at 3:09 pm - Reply

    got it

  14. Jen Kaefer Haag April 28, 2017 at 3:27 pm - Reply

    We have an innate sense to spot these people called intuition. Most people ignore it

  15. Karen Sheahan April 28, 2017 at 3:32 pm - Reply

    No need …I sum people up extremely well and accurate 98% of time …I go with my instincts

  16. Elsamaria A Melendez April 28, 2017 at 3:36 pm - Reply

    Jajajajajajaj thank you!!!!

  17. Matjaž Pribošič April 28, 2017 at 3:40 pm - Reply

    Often some toxics is also healing.

  18. In Dy April 28, 2017 at 4:28 pm - Reply

    Haha the real deal babay

  19. Frank Achon April 28, 2017 at 4:33 pm - Reply

    So true! We gotta keep the toxic people away from us

  20. Laura Stollorz Schroeder April 28, 2017 at 4:50 pm - Reply

    Be aware of people that tell you how to change yourself the first day they meet you. They like to point out your flaws immediately and tell you how to improve. Totally annoying- especially if you like yourself enough and are content in your life.

  21. John Hart April 28, 2017 at 5:54 pm - Reply

    If you were a real friend you’d make time for coffee on sat. I work night shift on the road. So if I want to be a real friend I need to drive home to have coffee with my buddies…..yeah I’ve gotta work. This article has gotta be a joke. It’s not how to spot or how to be a real friend. It’s how to only have ass kissing yes men and women as friends.

  22. Vonda Gee April 28, 2017 at 6:06 pm - Reply

    Really a guide?!? If you are of a certain age and do not know left from right, right from wrong, genuine from fake and who you would rather trust vs who you would like to be able to trust……I don’t know. Your internal compass, instincts, heads up and last but not least past experience should be more than enough insight to bring you up ti speed, when certain things/people are concerned. Most folk will try to punk you and use you in ways that’ll probably make you believe all sorts of odd things…….more than likely that’s negative about you and positive about them.

  23. Luisa Guiala April 28, 2017 at 6:15 pm - Reply

    So true!

  24. Ashwini Rathod April 28, 2017 at 6:22 pm - Reply

    most of the ppl pretends,they r nice.but we cant judge bad or gud ppl…experience is best teacher.just we hav to keep faith.:)

  25. Melissa Carrieri April 28, 2017 at 6:37 pm - Reply

    Oh I can spot them very easy. Got a couple on my page now snoop snoop

  26. Katia Baptista April 28, 2017 at 6:39 pm - Reply

    I use my intuition… I know who’s who

  27. Scharlotte Liggon April 28, 2017 at 8:55 pm - Reply

    Be ever vigilant!

  28. Dixie Roop April 28, 2017 at 9:58 pm - Reply

    There is no guide. It’s a surprise, unfortunately.

  29. Kam Satori April 28, 2017 at 10:21 pm - Reply

    Yeah. . . nah this is really not an intelligent assessment of human behavior. Ignores variables and personal aspects of individuals.

  30. Poju Oni April 28, 2017 at 11:26 pm - Reply

    Its when u keep believing their bs time over time

  31. Lea Oswald April 29, 2017 at 12:27 am - Reply

    Don’t need a guide my instincts are accurate

  32. Loweeze Kennedy April 29, 2017 at 12:29 am - Reply

    Interesting but not too detailed

  33. John Malewicki April 29, 2017 at 1:41 am - Reply

    I know my share of them

  34. Harlem Pinheiro April 29, 2017 at 2:14 am - Reply

    Thanks , I’ll go deep in it, as I seem a magnet to fake nice people

  35. Melissa Green April 29, 2017 at 2:20 am - Reply

    We have choices if the person acts fake then its not worth my time

  36. Brian Schelter April 29, 2017 at 2:33 am - Reply

    Or maybe sometimes people smile and act nice because it’s better than giving everyone the evil eye and yelling at everyone everywhere you go..I don’t see anything wrong with that. It doesn’t mean you shouldn’t still stand up for yourself if done wrong…

  37. Lasab Ttocs April 29, 2017 at 3:49 am - Reply

    I love the fake nice!

  38. Jenny Burls Sprackett April 29, 2017 at 3:58 am - Reply

    I’m always so aware of that super sweet person, they generally turn out to be toxic.

  39. Silvanna Corthen April 29, 2017 at 3:58 am - Reply


  40. Cindy Godwin Winkup April 29, 2017 at 5:01 am - Reply

    Very interesting information.

  41. Aided Joanna April 29, 2017 at 6:02 am - Reply

    I know many fakes! Haha

  42. Leila Hakulinen April 29, 2017 at 6:42 am - Reply

    Trust your gut feeling

  43. Kirsten Moore April 29, 2017 at 8:30 am - Reply

    Generally it’s good if people can look you straight in the eye when they talk to you, body language is very interesting. good intuition if you go by your gut feeling’s as well about people, it dosn’t usually lie. Lol

  44. Lesego Moroke April 29, 2017 at 9:52 am - Reply

    Irene Moemise we know who she is…

  45. Richard Paul April 29, 2017 at 11:34 am - Reply


  46. Frank Murphy April 29, 2017 at 11:43 am - Reply

    Wendy Ann, keep those eyes peeled.

  47. Susan Rillo Mark Williams April 29, 2017 at 12:43 pm - Reply

    My family is overrun by fakes. You can fool some of the people ……. Mark

  48. Pamela Shaw April 29, 2017 at 1:59 pm - Reply

    I know a few

  49. Trisha Carey April 29, 2017 at 7:25 pm - Reply

    I’m an observer of patterns and watch how the person in question treat others. My other tip off is when I’m exhausted after dealing with them.

  50. Natasha Button April 29, 2017 at 9:27 pm - Reply

    This remind you of someone? I think we both know who this one is in our lives or was in our lives

  51. Tony Mobbs April 30, 2017 at 5:54 am - Reply

    Wow … that opened up my mind … time to declutter the little black book of ‘friends’

  52. Ann Marie August 11, 2017 at 1:45 pm - Reply

    umm authentic people aren’t nice 100% of the time, fake people can be though. The truth hurts sometimes and my definition of a true friend is someone who tells the truth not tells me what I want to hear! I don’t agree with this list.

  53. Jules Murden-Brown August 11, 2017 at 10:48 pm - Reply

    Helen… praps this might help me with my lil problem?!

  54. Johnny Martinez August 12, 2017 at 2:03 am - Reply

    only women are not capable of figuring this out… if they are christian or educated may be a clue

  55. Craig Booth August 12, 2017 at 2:57 am - Reply

    Indeed.. fake praise would be another…

  56. Dina Samano-Kolls August 12, 2017 at 2:59 am - Reply


  57. Chris Austin August 12, 2017 at 6:09 am - Reply

    And they usually hang out with other fake people. Feeding each others egos. They can talk a good game but if there is nothing in it for them, they won’t put any effort in.

  58. Kat Ziemann August 12, 2017 at 7:57 am - Reply


  59. Pana Ionel Laurentiu August 12, 2017 at 9:42 am - Reply

    I have such a good gut feeling when it comes to this pricks that I’m not worried

  60. Benybell Palmar August 13, 2017 at 1:33 pm - Reply

    True, true, true

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